Or what about that investment opportunity that we passed on and it turned out to be a killer. Making whopping amounts of money for those that did take that path, but you sit there only saying, if I only had...
Or maybe those terrible decisions we make in life, you know the ones we are ashamed of and wished we could change if given half the opportunity? If only we would have made the other choice and then things would be totally different!
Have you ever wondered what your life would have been like if you had made the other choice many years ago? What would have occurred if let's say when you were graduating High School that instead of following the path of another into a field of employment, that you actually followed your heart and went the direction you really wanted to go but were afraid?
How many times have we all looked back and said, I wonder if? I used to think to myself that life was not fair. I would make comments like, well if I knew then what I know now I would have made the other choice, and it doesn't seem fair that I got to be stuck with a choice based on not having all the factual evidence laid out before me at that precise time!
Since it is difficult to understand the enigma we get ourselves in we end up hiding our true feelings with the age old quaint statements like, well I guess the road I took was the road I was supposed to take. In a way that lessens the pain of not making the decision we later believed would have been the correct one!
Again I have to contemplate on this subject and ask the over all powerful question, why does God allow us to make stupid decisions when it could effect everything? Doesn't God know that one decision could make or break us. Are we really left to being stuck with whatever it was we decided with no hope for change?
In most of the mindsets in this world, many believe we have only one life to live, so we had better make the best of it. Yet we are not all handed the same information nor are we all granted the same opportunity. Yet in direct contrast somehow we got to all come to the same quality of reality or else we are doomed. The logic in this conclusion is absolutely mystifying, yet what other conclusion can we make?
If our choices are the totality of our reality then we have all been handed a lousy trick that we call life, because based on the prior conclusion, it appears that each of our choices are set in stone and there is nothing we can do to change it. Yet what if the other choice would have contributed to making us a better human being? What if the choice we failed to make would have catapulted us into a greater reality. Instead the choice we did make constrained us and created a world that was not what we desired from the beginning!
I remember when my dad used to give sermons on marriage, one of the things he used to say was when the guy met the gal he would come across like the best thing since chocolate ice cream. He would make the girl think he was rich, usually borrowed money, make her think he had a great car, usually dad's car. And most of all make her think he was the nicest person alive, usually had a temper and would fly off the handle at almost anything!
Then the girl having to make the most important decision in her life finds out that her prince was in truth the prince of demons. All of a sudden her great expectations were shattered, and her dreams became nightmares until finally somewhere down the road it all had to end. However by then it seemed too late to ever recover from that mistake.
We see in that scenario that the girl was trapped, it was not totally her fault, she was looking for the right guy and based on the information she inquired of, he seemed to be what she was always looking for until you unwrap the package. You find that it is used, cracked, and unable to perform, lol. And it brings with it a whole new set of problems you never had before! I mean he said, I will give you the world if you marry me, but she did not realize that meant getting all the problems along with it!
Why is life such a beast at times? Why is it when we seek for a little happiness we get stuck with the whammy of whammies and end up having to pay a high price for that decision, which in part was not totally your fault?
And then we are told, well that's the breaks, and that is how life really is, you win some and you lose some and then you go to pay for the damages! Why does life all come down to that seemingly one fork in the road? And you either make the right choice or the wrong choice and then you are stuck with it?
And what is even sadder is what about those times where each fork leads in a direction you do not want to follow? But it appears you only have two choices?
Until we begin to comprehend that we are multi-dimensional beings we will for a very long time be stuck in abstract ideas with no real answers continuously caught in a loop! And yet when you come to be aware of what is really occurring then you begin to see the over all picture and are then able to cope with this life much better!
It is time that we begin to comprehend that what we experience in any dimension while living within a biological life form is only made aware to the individual presence at that moment! Using once again my familiar reckoning, the television, radio and computer. All three are different awareness levels, however the energy that enters within each unit is the exact same. Yet the units themselves do not know what the other units are thinking!